Proverbs 9:1 inspired my choice of the name “7 Pillars” for my financial coaching business. The verse says, “Wisdom has built her house on seven pillars.” I wanted to convey my desire to help people build their “financial houses” with wisdom. Each of these seven “pillars” will support your financial peace of mind, both personally and in your business.
P – Planning
“If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!” It is important to have a spending plan (a budget), a savings plan, and a debt reduction plan if you want to succeed financially.
I – Integrity
Always tell the truth – first to yourself, then to your spouse, customers, and business partners. You can’t be in denial about your spending habits, debt, or lack of savings and prosper financially.
L – Legacy
What are you leaving behind? You should aim for a both a fortune and a good example! What are you giving now to others, both in terms of your time and your money? “The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.” ~ Proverbs 11:25
L – Learning
Strive to be a life-long learner. Are you better today than you were yesterday? Do you know more today than you did yesterday? If not, you are falling behind! You should spend some time every day learning, and that includes learning how to handle money better. Don’t depend on others to make your financial decisions for you. Gather information then make a decision that is a product of your own conclusion. Don’t be mentally lazy. Read, read, read! Leaders are readers.
A – Advice
Wise advisors are the key to success. The people you associate with have a big influence on who you are and where you are going. Make an effort to spend time with people who can teach you something and encourage you to be a better person.
R – Responsibility
Don’t make excuses. Being responsible means living on less than what you make, saving, and avoiding debt. Take responsibility for your success and prosperity, because no one else will!
S – Saving
Saving money provides a cushion between you and life, because we all know that life happens! We save for purchases, emergencies, and long-term goals. When you have money saved it gives you security and peace of mind.
If you keep these things in mind when you are making decisions regarding your money and your business, you will be operating with wisdom!
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Force of Habit
Habits are seemingly small things, but they have great force in guiding our lives toward success or failure. The dictionary defines a habit as an acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary. Habits can be our greatest ally or our worst enemy. Good habits are small things that done regularly will yield positive results. If you eat an apple a day and take a walk around the block after dinner, that will accumulate into a healthy body. If you save 10% of every paycheck, although it seems like a small amount, it will accumulate into a fortune over time.
As business philosopher Jim Rohn says, these small disciplines are easy to do, but they are also easy NOT to do. Disaster doesn’t strike on the first day that you skip your walk or substitute a Snickers bar for your apple….Disaster doesn’t strike the first paycheck you decide to spend it all instead of saving some of your money. But you’ve got to be smarter than that! If you continue down that road, disaster will certainly come upon you. You succeed and fail by small degrees everyday, with your wealth, health, and relationships.
If you can harness the power of habit for good, you will certainly have a life of many successes. How? It takes about 21 days of discipline to convert a new behavior into a habit. Work on one good habit at a time, so you don’t become overwhelmed. Healthy people are healthy because of they have good health habits – eating an apple instead of a Snickers bar, taking a walk around the block, etc. Wealthy people are wealthy because they have good money habits – staying out of debt, saving regularly, investing, etc.
Please remember, there is no quick fix for getting “financially healthy”. If someone tells you there is, run as fast as you can in the other direction! Most financial messes aren’t made overnight, and they won’t be cleaned up overnight either. As Dave Ramsey says, “You can wander into debt, but honey, you can’t wander out!” Decide today to commit yourself to good money habits, and watch them accumulate over time into financial peace of mind.
As business philosopher Jim Rohn says, these small disciplines are easy to do, but they are also easy NOT to do. Disaster doesn’t strike on the first day that you skip your walk or substitute a Snickers bar for your apple….Disaster doesn’t strike the first paycheck you decide to spend it all instead of saving some of your money. But you’ve got to be smarter than that! If you continue down that road, disaster will certainly come upon you. You succeed and fail by small degrees everyday, with your wealth, health, and relationships.
If you can harness the power of habit for good, you will certainly have a life of many successes. How? It takes about 21 days of discipline to convert a new behavior into a habit. Work on one good habit at a time, so you don’t become overwhelmed. Healthy people are healthy because of they have good health habits – eating an apple instead of a Snickers bar, taking a walk around the block, etc. Wealthy people are wealthy because they have good money habits – staying out of debt, saving regularly, investing, etc.
Please remember, there is no quick fix for getting “financially healthy”. If someone tells you there is, run as fast as you can in the other direction! Most financial messes aren’t made overnight, and they won’t be cleaned up overnight either. As Dave Ramsey says, “You can wander into debt, but honey, you can’t wander out!” Decide today to commit yourself to good money habits, and watch them accumulate over time into financial peace of mind.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
How Having a Budget Can Remove the Money Fights from Your Marriage
“I can’t believe you are buying more clothes and shoes! Don’t you have enough already??”
“How could you go and buy a new iPad when we are already strapped for cash?”
“Who charged $700 worth of stuff on the Visa card last month?”
Sound familiar? If so, you are hardly alone. Most married couples admit to fighting about money on a regular basis. In fact, it is the #1 reason for divorce in this country - money problems and money fights. Getting on the same page with your husband or wife is essential to winning with money. “ Ha! Not likely,” you say. The surprising fix for money fights is having a budget that works for your family.
Now many of you cringe when I say that dreaded “B” word – budget… But a budget is simply a plan for how you are going to spend your money for the month. As Dave Ramsey says, “A budget is you telling your money where to go, instead of wondering where it went.” How does a having a plan for your money take the fights out of your marriage? Once you have agreed that you are going to spend a certain amount of money on something, like clothes, then there is no fighting when you buy clothes. If you’ve decided that we’re going to spend $200 on electronics this month, no one yells when electronics are bought, so long as you keep to the agreed amount. Wouldn’t that be nice?
Working through the budget with your spouse causes you both to communicate about what is important to each of you and your family. There is a learning curve when you get started with budgeting. The first couple of months, you will make a lot of corrections and changes to your family budget and that is to be expected. You and your spouse will probably fight through the first couple of months of budgeting, but don’t get discouraged. It will get easier the longer you do it. Doing a monthly budget is a small price to pay for financial peace of mind!
“How could you go and buy a new iPad when we are already strapped for cash?”
“Who charged $700 worth of stuff on the Visa card last month?”
Sound familiar? If so, you are hardly alone. Most married couples admit to fighting about money on a regular basis. In fact, it is the #1 reason for divorce in this country - money problems and money fights. Getting on the same page with your husband or wife is essential to winning with money. “ Ha! Not likely,” you say. The surprising fix for money fights is having a budget that works for your family.
Now many of you cringe when I say that dreaded “B” word – budget… But a budget is simply a plan for how you are going to spend your money for the month. As Dave Ramsey says, “A budget is you telling your money where to go, instead of wondering where it went.” How does a having a plan for your money take the fights out of your marriage? Once you have agreed that you are going to spend a certain amount of money on something, like clothes, then there is no fighting when you buy clothes. If you’ve decided that we’re going to spend $200 on electronics this month, no one yells when electronics are bought, so long as you keep to the agreed amount. Wouldn’t that be nice?
Working through the budget with your spouse causes you both to communicate about what is important to each of you and your family. There is a learning curve when you get started with budgeting. The first couple of months, you will make a lot of corrections and changes to your family budget and that is to be expected. You and your spouse will probably fight through the first couple of months of budgeting, but don’t get discouraged. It will get easier the longer you do it. Doing a monthly budget is a small price to pay for financial peace of mind!
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Why I'm Passionate About Helping People Achieve Financial Peace of Mind
Ten years ago, my life was a huge mess, emotionally, spiritually and financially. I owed three check advance companies money, I owed past due utility bills, and I had bounced so many checks that most grocery stores wouldn’t let me pay with a check. I was engaged to a man whose financial habits were worse than mine. The ironic part was that I was working for my family’s business, Kentucky Rebuild Corp (KRC), as the Accounting Manager. Here I was keeping the books for a multi-million dollar company, but I couldn’t even keep my own checkbook balanced. I felt like a hypocrite. One spring day in 2000, I went to lunch with my Dad (who is also my boss’s boss), and instead of harping on me about my “no good fiancé”, he just looked at me and said, “I’m worried about you, Christine. You just don’t seem happy.” I was quiet for a minute, and then finally said, “You know what? I’m not… So, now what?”
That was the turning point for me. I broke off the engagement and moved into my Dad’s house for three months (which is very humbling when you’ve been on your own for six years). During this time and for several months after, my Dad began to teach me about how to handle my money responsibly. He helped me devise a plan to start saving money, to pay off my debt, and encouraged me to start giving to charity.
Over the next several years, I kept following my Dad’s advice and my finances improved steadily. I also started dating my husband, Nick, who was doing almost all of the Dave Ramsey stuff (before we knew who Dave Ramsey was!). Nick modeled to me what being a “Super Saver” and debt-hater was. We were married in 2003.
One day, it dawned on me that I hadn’t worried about money in a long time. I never realized the amount of stress and worry I had when I was the under the burden of debt until I was finally out from under it. At that point, my Dad encouraged me to teach others what he taught me. He told me that I’d learn even more by teaching other people. I informally coached several of my siblings and friends on financial matters. I asked the leaders at my church (Vineyard Christian Church in Florence, KY) when we were going to have a class to help our members succeed financially. Finally, four years ago, we started offering Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University at the Vineyard! I was so excited! I co-facilitated the very first class of FPU, knowing that I would help others but never expecting to learn so much myself.
I was very impressed by Dave Ramsey’s style of teaching people sound financial management principles in a way that is fun and easy to understand. So much so, that I decided to become a Dave Ramsey Certified Financial Counselor.
I really have a heart for offering people hope in their financial struggles. I enjoy helping both individuals and small business owners succeed with money. There is nothing more satisfying for me than to sit across from someone, helping them with their financial plan, and seeing hope stir in them that they too can achieve financial peace of mind!
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